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      <image:caption>Little did I know at the time, when I picked up “Strangers” (Belle Burdon) that it was the “it” book of the moment. Had I known it was already being developed as a film starring Gwynnie (does she hate that name? Sorry Gwynnie if so, but that’s what I would ask to call you if we were coffee sharing pals), I would have never read it. Good thing that I’m somewhat of a pop culture ostrich, because I’m glad I read it.  If your head has been under a rock too, “Strangers” is a memoir that details Burdon’s experience of her husband unexpectedly and unapologetically leaving their relationship and their family. It is set against the backdrop of ultra-wealth Manhattan whiteness and privilege with summering in “the Vineyard” (Martha’s of course), where being inconspicuously conspicuous about having gob loads of money is the defining cultural de rigueur.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Inspired in part by working with clients; sons and fathers of sons, of all ages, as well as the work of Michael J. Diamond, I have started a process and skills group for Dads.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Ah, the classic working parent dilemma – to daycare or not to daycare? Well it was less of a question, but more of an imperative and a struggle to come to terms with it. Yes, I’d love to spend all day with my kiddo. And yes, that would probably cause some meltdowns, not just his, but mine too. But the idea or fantasy of it is wonderful. But alas, as I run my own businesses, it’s just not possible. (I’d be remiss to note that it's a privileged place to be able to afford daycare, especially in the HCOL city of Los Angeles.)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Siblings, Shiv and her older brother, Kendall discuss a strategic decision for the company. Leading up to this moment, Kendall had attempted to overthrow his father’s seat as the CEO of the company, however, the attempt was thwarted. Kendall: Dad's right. Shiv: Are you with him on this? Kendall: He sees everything, Shiv. Shiv: You have a hard time finding a happy medium between worshipping him and wanting to kill him.</image:caption>
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